CLICK™ - The Everybody Connection Method
Belonging is a Human Right
Including is a Human Responsibility
Including is a Human Responsibility
CLICK is a simple, practical method for embracing your place in the human family, creating meaningful connections, and living from the center of your story and values.
Including is a Human Responsibility
Including is a Human Responsibility
Including is a Human Responsibility
CLICK will also help you foster the skills and dispositions to help others feel welcomed and supported, live out their purpose in community, and enjoy life.
CLICK names the keys to connecting
Including is a Human Responsibility
CLICK names the keys to connecting
C- Connecting as is
L - Listening first
I - Investigating without judgment
C- Communicating kindness
K- Keeping in touch
Connect As Is
Investigate without Judgment
CLICK names the keys to connecting
Where do we start?
Where we are, as we are, with the time we already have. This is about being honest and being present. It's about the first hello... and what gets in the way of us saying it.
Listen First
Investigate without Judgment
Investigate without Judgment
Listening is the foundational skill that allows us to be present to ourselves, each other and the world around us. It's highly complex and difficult to practice amidst the distractions of the daily grind. Yet "being heard is so close to being loved, that for the average person, they are almost indistinguishable."
Investigate without Judgment
Investigate without Judgment
Investigate without Judgment
Oh the assumptions we make before we even realize we're making them! When we slow down to gently investigate our reactions and ask sincere questions that help us get to know people, we've gone far in creating a habit of judgment-free curiosity that sets us up for rich, meaningful relationships.
Communicate Kindness
Communicate Kindness
Communicate Kindness
Kindness is the central disposition we come towards any interaction with. Communicating that openness and care--whether verbally, through body language, or service; whether in digital spaces or in person--is the best (and most ancient!) way to set up a positive interaction that can lead to...who knows! But this is what we have control over: showing up "in a good way."
Keep in Touch
Communicate Kindness
Communicate Kindness
Our time is maybe our most valuable resource. And relationships can't be microwaved. Having realistic expectations about the time needed to nurture relationships can help us creatively prioritize connection in our days, weeks and season of life.